Biddato or buri rasmo or buri bato ka bayan

Hadees / Hadith

Islam ki sachi Batein

Bayan

Qabro'n par dhoom dhaam se mela lagana,
Chiraga jalana, aorto'n ka waha jana,
chadre daalna,
pokhrta qabrei'n banana,
buzurgo ke raazi karne ko qabro'n ki hadd se zyada tazeem karna,
taaziya ya qabro'n ko choomna chaatna,
khaak malna,
tawaf karna,
sajda karna,
qabro'n ki taraf namaz parhna,
mithaai chawal gulgule wagairah charhana,
taaziya alam wagairah rakhna,
iss par halua maleeda charhana ya issko salam karna,
kisi cheez ko achooti samajhna,
muharram ke mahine mei'n paan na khana,
mehndi missi na lagana,
mard ke paas na rehna,
laal kapra na pehenna,
biwi ke sahenk mardo ko na khane dena,
teeja chaleeswa wagairah ko zaroori samajhna,
bawjood zaroorat ke aorat ke dusre nikah ko mayoob samajhna,
nikah khatna bismillah wagairah mei'n agar chah basa'at na ho magar khaandani rasmei'n karna,
khususan qarz wagairah karke naach rang wagairah karna holi diwali ki ismei'n karna,
salam ki jagah bandagi wagairah karna ya sirf sir pe hath rakh kar jhuk jana,
devar, jheth, fuffi zaat, khala zaat bhai ke samne be mahaba aana ya or kisi na mehram ke samne aana,
gharha dariya ser gaate bajate laana,
raag baaja or gaana sunna,
domniyo wagairah ko nachana or dekhna iss par khush hona iss par khush hokar unko inam dena,
naseeb par faqr karna,
kisi buzurg se mansoob hone ko nijaad ke liye kafi samajhna,
kisi ke naseeb par kusr se tayen karna,
hadd se zyada kisi ki tareef karna,
shadiyo'n mei'n fizool kharchi or khurafat batei'n karna,
hinduo'n ki rasmei'n karna,
dulha ko khilaaf shara'a poshaaq pehnana,
kangna sehra pehnana,
mehndi lagana, aatish baazi karna,
fizool arayesh karna,
ghar ke andar aorto ke darmiya dulhe ko bulana or samne ajana,
taak jhaank kar usko dekhna,
syaani samajhdar saaliyo wagairah ka samne aana isse hassi dil lagi karna,
chauthi khelna,
jiss jagah dulha dulha lete ho uske gird jama hokar batei'n sunna,
jhaank taakna,
agar koi baat maloom ho jaye toh usko aoro'n se kehna,
maanjhe baithna,
or asis sharm karna jisse namaze kazza karna,
ghami mei'n chillake rona,
muhh or seena peetna, bayan karke rona,
istemaali gharhe torh daalna,
jo jo kapre uske badan se lage ho sabka dhulwana,
baras roz tak ya kuch zyada iss achaar na parhna,
koi khushi ki tarqeeb na karna,
maqsoos tareekho'n mei'n fir gham ka taaza karna,
hadd se zyada zeb wa zeenat mei'n masgool hona,
saadi waja'a ko mayoob janna,
makaan mei'n tasveer lagana,
khaas daan, atar daan, sarmadaani salaai wagairah chandi sone ki istemaal karna,
bahut bareeq kapra pahenna ya bajta zevar pahenna, lehnga pahenna,
ya mardo'n ke majma'a mei'n jaana,
taaziya dekhne or mele mei'n jana,
or mardo'n ki gazza ikhtiyaar karna,
badan godana,
khudai raat karna,
ya totka karna mehez zeb wa zeenat ke liye deewar giri ya chatt giri lagana,
safar ko jaate ya laotte waqt gair mehram ke gale lagna ya lagana,
jeene ke liye larke ka kaan naak chedna,
larke ko baala ya bulaaq pehnana,
reshmi qusm ya zafraan ka ranga hua kapra hatheli ghungru ya koi or zewar pehnana,
kamm rone ki liye afiyoom khilana,
kisi bimari mei'n sher ka doodh ya uska gosht khilan,
iss qism ki or bahut si batei'n hai,
bataor namuna ke itni bayan kardi gayi...-

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